Today is my double life day. I end the full time care giver for MIL and begin the fast paced life I have put off for that. So I have to contain my excitement and not jump into busy mode to early. It makes MIL agitated.
Funny how life can change so fast. And things that seem to be "bad" in the beginning can turn out interesting. There are a few instances of that in my life. First Sam. We were so not going to have any more kids...unless God had other plans. Well the realization of being pregnant at 37 with our kids ages 15 and 12 just did not seem to be "good" . I was embarrassed... Grap a Doughnut I was a grown woman and should not "accidentally" get Knocked up. Well almost 6 years later, he is such a blessing he just came to the party late!
My MIL and I never really had much of a relationship. She did not really like me...I took her baby away. She did some underhanded things and just snarky. So when she had to come and live with us and I became her care giver, I figured life was going to be HELL. Well again there are days when life is hard. There are days you just have to laugh. I have spent more alone time with her TODAY than I have in the past almost 25 years of being married to her son. There were always others around. Don't get me wrong when the year is up my hubby and SIL need to have other arrangements made. But, until then I will look for the bright side. It is like Easter Egg hunt every morning to find her dirty Panties!LOL
One thing that is odd, the deep conversations we have when she is naked (giving her a shower). According to her I give the best showers EVER! LOL
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